Adults only · 18+

Keep Every Conversation Comfortable

Safety online is mostly a handful of habits applied every time. Here they are, without padding — the same rules whether you are texting, on camera, here or anywhere else.

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The Non-Negotiables

• Keep your address, phone number and financial details private. No early conversation needs any of them.
• Never send money to someone you have only met online. No emergency, fee, gift card or investment changes this rule.
• Do not record or share another person without permission. It is a violation here and often a crime.
• Use block and report tools when necessary. They exist precisely so you never have to argue with someone who crossed a line.
• End the conversation whenever something feels wrong. Your instinct does not owe anyone an explanation.
• ChatGirls is for adults aged 18 and over only.

Privacy in Text Chat

Early messages should be about interests, humour and getting a feel for each other — not your workplace, your street or your last name. If someone pushes for identifying details faster than the conversation justifies, that is information about them. Slow down or leave. More conversational craft lives in the text chat guide.

Privacy on Camera

Your video frame speaks: mail on the desk shows your address, a window view can place your building, a work badge names your employer. Before a video call, take ten seconds to look at what is behind you. A plain wall is a perfectly good backdrop.

The Money Rule, Expanded

Requests for money from someone you met online follow a script: warmth first, then an urgent, sympathetic, time-limited problem that only you can solve. The story varies; the ask is the tell. The rule that defeats every version of it is boring and absolute — never send money, in any form, to someone you have only met online.

Respect Runs Both Ways

The same protections cover the women you talk with. No means no in any conversation; explicit content nobody asked for, pressure, and harassment end chats and accounts. The best conversations on the platform happen between people who both feel in control — see how the whole flow keeps it that way.